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#261786 - 11/15/08 02:30 PM Re: Anyone else do this? [Re: steveb121]
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Registered: 09/20/08
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Loc: Indiana
I was not used to have eye contacts with anyone when i was a kid...i was so afraid of having eye contact with my bro or cousins...i was afraid of being hit badly or being raped again...


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#261847 - 11/15/08 10:55 PM Re: Anyone else do this? [Re: sunwolf]
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After reading this post, I second guessed myself while at the laundry mat after I tried to sneak bye someone, wondering if I was wrong for apologizing, wrong for getting in the way, wrong for just being present......or actually correct this time in saying I'm sorry. This thread brought up a lot of thinking about these situations for me. This particular time, I did kinda cut someone off and surprised them as I walked bye.....and I looked them in the eye and said I'm sorry. It finally felt right. I didn't blame myself as I had in the past....I just said it because I meant it. And this was a cool feeling....finally.

Chris

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