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#261630 - 11/14/08 04:48 PM what to do about dad
Jase Offline


Registered: 11/14/08
Posts: 4
Loc: Indiana, USA
i was abused by my father from age 7 to 11. i was naieve and was 11 before i realized what was really happening. that being said. im 19 now and i have a 1 year old son. i want my mom to be in his life but not my dad. no one knows what happened. i dont know what will happen if i confront. anyone had experience with this?

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#261631 - 11/14/08 04:54 PM Re: what to do about dad [Re: Jase]
sunwolf Offline


Registered: 09/20/08
Posts: 225
Loc: Indiana
It seems the abuse was not a 1 time thing but lasted long...if I were you I won't let my son near him at all!!!..even if you need to confront him...confrontations are not pleasant but remmeber what hapened to you...don't let your boy go through the same...its your duty to protect him...


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#261632 - 11/14/08 04:55 PM Re: what to do about dad [Re: Jase]
theraven Offline


Registered: 11/08/08
Posts: 34
Loc: US of A
I have a different experience. My abuser was an uncle and cousin. Someone here can help, I'm sure. Confronting this at such a young age is admirable. At your age I was in a dissociative confusion... you are moving forward.

You will get the help you need.
Job number 1: Keep your boy safe
...I'm sure you know that.


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#261633 - 11/14/08 04:57 PM Re: what to do about dad [Re: theraven]
Jase Offline


Registered: 11/14/08
Posts: 4
Loc: Indiana, USA
oh 1 thing i can guarantee is that he will never abuse my son. i think he already knows that but he is still kind of an imposing figure to me. u know.

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Jase

Remember, you dont have to outrun the bear. You only have to outrun your buddy.

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