I'm glad things worked out so well for you in telling your daughter about your SA. Sounds like the timing was right, as it will be with your other children.
I told both of my daughters last year, right after I began remembering. But then they were 1st year in college & high school senior. They were very understanding, & it helped them understand a lot about why I was the way I was.
Now my youngest, who is going into medicene, is starting to think maybe psychology or therapy or something. My oldest soon after I told her started doing volunteer work on a rape & domestic violence crisis hotline.
I guess a lot depends on circumstances, age of children, etc. I'm just glad it worked out so well for me. And for you. I wish the same for everyone else, whatever way they go in this.
"I can't stand pain. It hurts me."