i think it is unfair that girls want you to have sex with them

My first response 2 this was an lol..but it occurred 2 me it might not really b at all funny. My thought was that as problems go, I'd choose having girls want to have sex w me, but this cud b a serious issue and I shouldn't presume to make light of it.

wanna talk more about this Lewis?

Just say NO!

Now Lewis what brought this up?

i feel like there has been enough sex for a lifetime already
you trust somebody and get betrayed and used like that, and then if you find somebody you like they want to do the same kind of thing
it's like, oh, wait a minute, she wants to use me like he did
and then i feel angry
its like, go away
it just feels like the same thing
and feel tricked into thinking that she liked me for being me and not to have sex with me
how come all people want is sex
sex is just a bad thing in a way and i dont know why people want it so much, i guess people who havent been abused wouldn't understand, but i did enough of that when i was a kid and now to have a relationship you have to do it more, its the same thing, and it's unfair, and i shouldn't have to but people don't understand, it's not fair on us because it is not a fun thing it was bad and wrong and then they want you to do it more for them to like you

Is it really true that she doesn't like u 4 u, or do you think that might b just how it feels 2 u?

i don't really like her anyway, so i suppose it doesnt matter

Well, it's never good 2 have sex with sum1 u don't like.

You know there really is a lot that is unfair about the whole sex thing. The unfairness kind of works both ways..but in different ways. The whole sexual situation with men and women is very unfair to both in all kinds of ways.

women have it easy surely, they don't even have to do anything lol

True, but then part of that is having no control.