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#258337 - 10/27/08 05:56 PM I hurt the one who loves me most
88SEAN88 Offline
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Registered: 08/23/07
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Loc: queensland, australia




Edited by 88SEAN88 (04/19/09 07:44 AM)
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#258410 - 10/27/08 09:04 PM Re: I hurt the one who loves me most [Re: 88SEAN88]
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Registered: 05/30/08
Posts: 359
Loc: Lake Forest, CA
Sean, I wish I could take away all the pain and the insanity that was visited on you by a monster.

I do not usually read this kind of thing because it gets to be so deep.

But I cannot stop hearing your call for understanding and your call for help. And for no one to judge you.

I hear you, I may not fully understand, but I will NEVER judge you.

I think others may not know what to say also. Sometimes all we can do is say we are here for you. Let it out. Let it all out. This is not, and never was, your fault.

Paul

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#258470 - 10/28/08 08:40 AM Re: I hurt the one who loves me most [Re: Tinman]
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Registered: 10/11/07
Posts: 10
Loc: Australia
Dude you really fucked up, I'm sorry to tell you straight but you need to start thinking about your partner above yourself. She posted alot about that whole event when it happened so I think you got alot to make it up to her.

Just thank your lucky stars you found an amazing woman AND that she took you back.

Best of luck
Rohan



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#258483 - 10/28/08 09:44 AM Re: I hurt the one who loves me most [Re: Rohdeo]
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Registered: 07/28/05
Posts: 823
Loc: Australia
Sean,

We all make mistakes. I think itís just the scale that is different.

You have a choice if you wish to continue this relationship and it sounds like you do. Do all that you can to make amends. If she chooses to walk Iím sure youíll understand her reasons. That wonít make it any easier I know.

Whatever the outcome, I hope you can gain something positive out if it all. My heart goes out to the inner pain you have and what really led to this all in the first place Ė that horrible abuse.

Iím here supporting you as best as I can.


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#260361 - 11/06/08 10:02 PM Re: I hurt the one who loves me most [Re: Grunty1967b]
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Registered: 08/23/07
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Thanks for the supportive comments, I appreciate that here we can be honest about good and bad and all in an ever supportive atmosphere.

smile

S

ps things are actually going better than ever ... I feel like I can trust and can be honest with her.

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