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#242707 - 08/06/08 12:56 AM Re: How did you know... [Re: James Landrith]
NY Daisy Offline
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Registered: 02/29/08
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James, sorry, I am not sure what you mean. Was your wife abused? did she abuse you?


#242729 - 08/06/08 08:46 AM Re: How did you know... [Re: NY Daisy]
James Landrith Offline

Registered: 07/07/08
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Loc: Alexandria, VA, USA
Originally Posted By: NY Daisy
James, sorry, I am not sure what you mean. Was your wife abused? did she abuse you?


My wife was raped. She was not my rapist.

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#248604 - 09/08/08 08:26 AM Re: How did you know... [Re: dangal]
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Registered: 09/08/08
Posts: 5
Jen, how did you make him realize he was abused?

#258196 - 10/26/08 11:02 PM Re: How did you know... [Re: BJK]
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I think I can confidently say that he got help when I left him. I told him that I couldn't be with him unless he was in therapy. He had broken up with me, but I decided that this time was different, I wasn't going to let the cycle continue, and I stopped waiting for him to begin the healing process. Knowing that I was serious, I think, was a jolt to his system. It took him some time to realize 1. that I was serious and 2. that I was right, he needed help - and then he got it. And I was (still am) so proud of him.

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