Recovery does change things, but they will make you more able to connect with your wife and the other important relationships in your life. Althought the road is bumpy the destination is worth the effort to get there. Just stay in communication with your wife, which it sounds like you are since she was able to share this with you and it will be all good.
Everything works out right in the end. If things are not working right, it isn't the end yet. Don't let it bother you, relax and keep on goin
- Michael C. Muhammad
"I get up. I walk. I fall down. Meanwhile, I keep dancing."
ï¿½ Rabbi Hillel