OK GUYS!!!! I FOR ONE AM TOTALLY PISSED OFF AT ALLL THE CRAP THAT I SEE ON TV, READ IN THE PAPER AND HEAR ON THE NEWS ABOUT SEXUAL ASSAULT. i DO NOT SEE ONE DAMNED THING ABOUT THE PERVASIVNESS OF THIS FOUL EVIL. JUST SENSATIONAL SHIT THAT SELLS WHATEVER THE PRODUCERS ARE HAWKING AT THE TIME. I SAY ENOUGH OF THIS. IT IS TIME WE HAD A COHESIVE AND STRONG VOICE THAT WILL NOT LET SOCIETY CONTINUE THE WAY IT HAS IN THE PAST.
Every one of the brothers here is at some point on the continuum of healing to becoming who they were meant to be. And god knows how many of our brothers live in quiet or destructive shame and destroy their lives and also the untold numbers that have not been able to continue on on this earth.
Why is that. WELL I KNOW WHY. It is because society continues individually. You are a man you should have not let that happen. or Why did you take so long to tell anyone. or All you guys really want is money. or Why do you have to screw up the status quo.or Hey you were just sowing your wild oats and it was a learning experience. or It had to be your fault because you are gay. or probably the worst one That could not have happened. you are making it all up. they go into denial
Not only society has done this to us. So have the GD PERPS
IS IT ANY WONDER THAT WE HAVE HAD AND CONTINUE TO HAVE DIFFICULTY WITH OUR HEALING.
I think it is a miracle that we are as far along as we are.
We need a strong voice because as individuals we are like feeble voices in the wind.
AS FAR AS I CAN SEE THERE IS ONLY ONE ORGANIZATION THAT CAN BE OUR VOICE AND IT IS RIGHT HERE. MALE SURVIVOR CAN BE THE INSTRUMENT OF CHANGE
AND THE WAY TO DO IT IS TO MAKE IT STRONG. ALL HERE PAST AND PRESENT SHOULD JOIN TO HELP WITH THE FUNDING IF YOU CAN. AND EACH AND EVERYONE OF US SHOULD, WHERE POSSIBLE, ADVOCATE THE SITE AS A PLACE OF HEALING AND TOGETHERNESS IN ADDITION TO THERAPY AND AS A UNITED FRONT TO FACE THE WORLD.
THE REACH OF MALESURVIVOR IS GLOBAL BY VIRTUE OF ITS WEBSITE.
I have found that my healing accelerated by giving more than I got. It gives me a sense of self worth that I never had. Now I really dont care how little that any brother does as long as it is something.
I think the President FRED TOLSON and the other board members can give us guidance with this.
You will note the brochure on the home page Entitled. YOU CAN HELP.
It can be as little a thing as leaving them at your therapists office or giving them to the local school boards and leaving them at places where people congregate. I CAN TELL YOU ONE THING. IF WE LET SOMEONE OR SOMETHING ELSE DO IT FOR US NOTHING WILL HAPPEN . PERSONALLY I WILL NOT TOLERATE THE STATUS QUO ANY MORE.
I have reached a stage in my life at 63 of being fairly at peace with myself and have some self respect and I want each and every one of us to reach that state also, young and old alike.
I WOULD LIKE MY EPITATH TO READ . WE THE BROTHERS HAVE MET THE EVIL AND IT HAS ABSOLUTELY NOWHERE TO HIDE BECAUSE OF THE COLECTTIVE EFFORT