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#260167 - 11/05/08 12:37 PM Re: confused bi [Re: Sans Logos]
1islandboy Offline
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If you make the choice based on the individual?

We would be dealing with with those intangible things like personality and feelings.

How dare you be so deep....ha.ha.ha...!!!


island

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#260168 - 11/05/08 12:41 PM Re: confused bi [Re: 1islandboy]
ineffable Offline
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well.......

if there is no BOING, aren't personality & feelings are secondary?
Dare I be so basic?

RECLAIM YOUR GODGIVEN NATURAL PROPENSITY FOR BOING WITHOUT SHAME
or other dickwads projections, negative transference &/or superiority, morality ad nauseum

C



Edited by ineffable (11/05/08 12:52 PM)
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#260242 - 11/06/08 12:47 AM Re: confused bi [Re: ineffable]
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forgive me for intruding, but haven't too many men been already accused of thinking with their BOING, instead of their heads, and hearts? Without these two other components, BOING is just BOING, and perhaps a left over from days thankfully past?

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#260275 - 11/06/08 09:47 AM Re: confused bi [Re: Geeders]
ineffable Offline
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Good point.

Original context had to do with acceptance of original GodGiven BOING pre-abuse or
"earthly evangelical morality superiority".

Deal with the imprinting of unwanted/imposed thoughts/beliefs & behaviors resulting from
sexual abuse, trauma & victimization? HELL YEAH

Recovering healthy sexuality NUMBER ONE priority.
That includes also identifying then dealing with "ism's" & "phobia's" too



Edited by ineffable (11/06/08 09:53 AM)
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#260316 - 11/06/08 02:56 PM Re: confused bi [Re: Sans Logos]
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Registered: 09/24/08
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Dusty42 has deleted this message. I no longer feel safe here.



Edited by dusty42 (03/18/09 02:51 PM)
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#260318 - 11/06/08 03:25 PM Re: confused bi [Re: dusty42]
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#260358 - 11/06/08 09:36 PM Re: confused bi [Re: steveb121]
ineffable Offline
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Originally Posted By: dusty42
Gays have no more right to shave their orientation onto heteros as heteros have forcing their orientation on gays and homos.


Dusty, I am glad you have come to some kind of terms with your issues.

However, culture "shoves" ( I think that is what you were saying?) "orientation" regardless of how we feel about it
- overtly in mass media etc & covertly simply through the language we use when we talk to or about each other.

I had a PM from someone concerning sexualities who said they would "never assume to correct how they feel or act"
(they being "straight, gay, bisexual and asexual men in groups")
Bold emphasis added by me.

The inference is something is wrong & something is right.
Subtle, yes; but pervasive in all cultures.

Again, I am glad you have come to some peace.

C

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#260389 - 11/07/08 02:06 AM Re: confused bi [Re: ineffable]
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Dusty42 has deleted this message. I no longer feel safe here.



Edited by dusty42 (03/18/09 02:50 PM)
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#260401 - 11/07/08 09:07 AM Re: confused bi [Re: dusty42]
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Had to re-read this thread to get where your "brain injuries"? context came from dusty.
Couldn't find any "connection".
But I did read you mention that you were also communicating about this topic via PMs due to privacy concerns.
Has anyone suggested in a PM that you might be "brain injured"?

I wish you well on your recovery as I do anyone struggling with sexual identity confusion
regardless of what their sexual & romantic orientation is.

C

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#260407 - 11/07/08 10:35 AM Re: confused bi [Re: dusty42]
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