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#2501 - 07/31/06 02:02 PM I give up
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Registered: 06/14/06
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I really do...


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#2502 - 07/31/06 02:30 PM Re: I give up
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Jay,

Want to elaborate on that a bit? This sounds like something you need to talk about.

But there's absolutely nothing wrong with having a "bad day". We all have times when there just isn't a wretched thing to say except "Fuck it all".

Much love,
Larry

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#2503 - 07/31/06 02:50 PM Re: I give up
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It's just another day of hating my father and missing Kenny and feeling guilty about both Larry.

Jay


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#2504 - 07/31/06 03:06 PM Re: I give up
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Jay,

Okay. I can understand why you feel so strongly about your father, and we have talked about why a survivor may sometimes miss the abuser. You aren't alone.

And there's no reason to feel guilty because you have these feelings. It's not like you chose them, and it's not like you have the option of turning them on and off as you please. These high-powered emotions so often aren't good or bad, they're just "there".

You don't have to judge yourself because you have these feelings. You haven't done anything wrong. Gradually you will sort all this out; it just takes time.

Much love,
Larry

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Nobody living can ever stop me
As I go walking my freedom highway.
Nobody living can make me turn back:
This land was made for you and me.
(Woody Guthrie)

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#2505 - 07/31/06 03:24 PM Re: I give up
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Gimmie a break Larry, let me feel guilty for no real valid reasons for a while will you? lol


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#2506 - 07/31/06 03:37 PM Re: I give up
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Okay, done! You have exactly half an hour for wallowing in undeserved guilt; refills and extensions granted on merit basis only ;\)

Much love,
Larry

_________________________
Nobody living can ever stop me
As I go walking my freedom highway.
Nobody living can make me turn back:
This land was made for you and me.
(Woody Guthrie)

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#2507 - 07/31/06 03:40 PM Re: I give up
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Great, thanks I appreciate that!
How do I earn the merits?


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#2508 - 07/31/06 03:44 PM Re: I give up
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Haven't decided yet, but get back to wallowing bro. The guilt-meter is running and you're wasting your half hour! \:\)

L.

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Nobody living can ever stop me
As I go walking my freedom highway.
Nobody living can make me turn back:
This land was made for you and me.
(Woody Guthrie)

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#2509 - 07/31/06 04:16 PM Re: I give up
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Registered: 06/14/06
Posts: 680
Okay, okay...

It was all my fault it was all my fault it was all my fault I feel guilty it was all my fault it was all my fault it was all my fault it was all my fault I feel guilty it was all my fault it was all my fault it was all my fault it was all my fault I feel guilty it was all my fault it was all my fault....

How am I doing on time?


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#2510 - 07/31/06 06:26 PM Re: I give up
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Time's up. In order to get an extension you have to name me a really STUPID reason for thinking it was all your fault. Reasons that are simply WRONG don't count. Go for it dude...

L.

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Nobody living can ever stop me
As I go walking my freedom highway.
Nobody living can make me turn back:
This land was made for you and me.
(Woody Guthrie)

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