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#249066 - 09/10/08 09:34 PM Question about the chat
Tinman Offline


Registered: 05/30/08
Posts: 359
Loc: Lake Forest, CA
For the first time tonight (I admit I am rather new), I encountered a female moderator. Don't get me wrong, I think she is great. But I have a question.

She may be a moderator, but she is still, in the way I understand it, one of the Family & Friends. There is a forum for those important people on the chat.

Does this mean that women can log onto chat (the main room)? I ask this because I am not always comfortable sharing things with women present. I have enough of that in SIA.

Please, this is not meant as an insult or anything else to all the women who support survivors!!! I just need to know.

Thanks,

Paul

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To the perps: Don't worry about me coming after you. But you damn well better watch out for God! "Vengeance is mine", saith the Lord

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#249068 - 09/10/08 09:39 PM Re: Question about the chat [Re: Tinman]
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Registered: 06/19/04
Posts: 7821
Hi, Paul. Yes, women can log into and participate in the main chat room. We do, however, ask that they identify themselves to the room as a woman, and if anyone feels uncomfortable with them being there that they (the female) respect that and remove themself to the F&F chat room if they want to stay.

Glad you made it to the chat room, Paul, it's another great healing source of this site.

Regards,
Eddie

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#249069 - 09/10/08 09:48 PM Re: Question about the chat [Re: EGL]
Tinman Offline


Registered: 05/30/08
Posts: 359
Loc: Lake Forest, CA
Ok, clear about this.

And I have to give her a lot of credit. Instead of being insulted when I PM'd her in the chat, she offered to leave. That is dedication.

She knows why I asked the question and had concerns and she answered them kindly and with a whole lot of compassion.

Thanks, Trish!

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#249070 - 09/10/08 09:56 PM Re: Question about the chat [Re: Tinman]
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Registered: 10/15/05
Posts: 3280
Loc: New Jersey
We're good Paul. You were kind and honest with me and the only way for me to respond to that was in the same way. It was a pleasure meeting you.

Trish

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