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#205874 - 02/18/08 01:25 PM Difficulty Dealing With Being Raped By A Woman
jcf1957 Offline
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Registered: 09/11/07
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Loc: North Of The 49th Parallel
I've been contemplating my miserable past 28 years of living with Rape-Related Post Traumatic Stress Disorder. The fact of being tortured, sodomized, and beaten by two men at gunpoint is a harsh enough reality to endure. But they weren't the only perpetrators present. The fact of having a woman fondle and torture me with a hot curling iron in ways I prefer not to describe was just as bad if not worse. Does this make me question my manhood at times. I wouldn't speak about it if it didn't bother me. Yeah; it is humiliating to talk about it. But I need feedback from other men on this site who may have experienced similar experiences. If you are in anyway, shape, or form bothered about speaking frank about this; then this post is not for you. I would appreciate genuine input from other men who may have gone through experiences resemblance of my own.

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#205894 - 02/18/08 03:40 PM Re: Difficulty Dealing With Being Raped By A Woman [Re: jcf1957]
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#205986 - 02/18/08 11:27 PM Re: Difficulty Dealing With Being Raped By A Woman [Re: mogigo]
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I have not had this history, but I know of other men here who have been abused by women. You will be heard and understood here, and I am very sorry of your need to be here.

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#205988 - 02/18/08 11:33 PM Re: Difficulty Dealing With Being Raped By A Woman [Re: ak]
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Thanks for the support ak. It's not taken for granted.
Thanks Again. Hope to talk with you on the chat line
Have a good one.

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#247799 - 09/01/08 11:02 PM Re: Difficulty Dealing With Being Raped By A Woman [Re: jcf1957]
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Registered: 07/07/08
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Loc: Alexandria, VA, USA
I was raped by a woman as well. Feel free to PM me if you want to talk. I've read your story before at another forum. The curling iron was not something I could easily forget after I'd read it.

As this thread is a little dated, I hope you are doing a little better now.



Edited by James Landrith (09/01/08 11:06 PM)
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