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#247514 - 08/30/08 08:42 PM Re: just call me pariah [Re: MarkK]
michael banks Offline


Registered: 06/12/08
Posts: 1755
Loc: Mojave Desert, Ca
Mark,

A rope has many purposes.
It just depends how youuu choose to use it.

To hang oneself or
Climb out of the pit.

The choice is always ours.

mike

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#247515 - 08/30/08 08:44 PM Re: just call me pariah [Re: michael banks]
MarkK Offline
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Registered: 04/02/07
Posts: 2502
Loc: Denver, CO
Originally Posted By: michael banks
A rope has many purposes.
It just depends how youuu choose to use it.

precisely


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#247516 - 08/30/08 08:52 PM Re: just call me pariah [Re: MarkK]
michael banks Offline


Registered: 06/12/08
Posts: 1755
Loc: Mojave Desert, Ca
Mark,

Your in my prayers.

mike

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To own one's shadow is the highest moral act of a human.
-Robert Johnson-

"IT ought never be forgotten that the past is the parent of the future" John C. Calhoun

WOR Alumni Sequoia 2009

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#247517 - 08/30/08 08:54 PM Re: just call me pariah [Re: michael banks]
MarkK Offline
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Registered: 04/02/07
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Loc: Denver, CO
well, i'd say that put an end to this discussion
goodnight, sir


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#247521 - 08/30/08 09:33 PM Re: just call me pariah [Re: MarkK]
michael banks Offline


Registered: 06/12/08
Posts: 1755
Loc: Mojave Desert, Ca
Mark,

Just have to recognize when someone is trying to push buttons.

mike



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To own one's shadow is the highest moral act of a human.
-Robert Johnson-

"IT ought never be forgotten that the past is the parent of the future" John C. Calhoun

WOR Alumni Sequoia 2009

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#247526 - 08/30/08 10:33 PM Re: just call me pariah [Re: michael banks]
MarkK Offline
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Registered: 04/02/07
Posts: 2502
Loc: Denver, CO
Originally Posted By: michael banks
Just have to recognize when someone is trying to push buttons.

i don't believe that of you - which leaves the concept that you believe it of me. which is your choice. if so, i apologize - it wasn't my intent. perhaps it would have been best if i hadn't started this lame thread.

again - my apologies.


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#247597 - 08/31/08 04:06 PM Re: just call me pariah [Re: MarkK]
kutcher Offline
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Registered: 08/16/08
Posts: 99
Loc: Delaware
MarkK,

Sometimes the pain of lonliness is so much I physically wretch and wail, litterly.

I have just started to remember and to work on healing, last night I was so alone I did not know where to turn, but I made it through the night and although the day has it ups and downs there are people I know and I don't want them ever to doubt that I love them and need them them. Therefore I stand, or curl up and let the loneliness come at me and then when the wave ebss I move forward,

MarkK stand with us hear, or huddle with me you are not alone we are here and we need your voice.

Dave


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#247682 - 09/01/08 09:59 AM Re: just call me pariah [Re: kutcher]
MarkK Offline
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Registered: 04/02/07
Posts: 2502
Loc: Denver, CO
the one thing nobody needs is me
especially here
it was a nice sentiment Dave, thank you - but it's not true

take care


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#247707 - 09/01/08 12:15 PM Re: just call me pariah [Re: MarkK]
pufferfish Offline
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Registered: 02/26/08
Posts: 6847
Loc: USA
MarkK

You need to DO something about it and not just sit there with a clipboard, chalking up another one every time a so-called friend leaves.

There are lots and lots of people in your territory, and many of them are potential friends for YOU.

On your clipboard instead of making marks for friends lost, devise a plan of how you can meet new safe friends. Clubs, organizations related to your interests, develop new interests. Take up clogging or square dancing or something. Become a plumber and take up unclogging.

Maybe you need to redefine who you are somewhat.

Become ACTIVE to remidy your situation.

Allen

puffer


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#247762 - 09/01/08 06:34 PM Re: just call me pariah [Re: pufferfish]
MarkK Offline
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Registered: 04/02/07
Posts: 2502
Loc: Denver, CO
Originally Posted By: pufferfish
Maybe you need to redefine who you are somewhat.

i have ... redefined ... who i am for years, trying to be what others wanted/expected/whatever - so i could have "friends".

instead, i think maybe i need to finally accept what i am. and am not.

m


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