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#247514 - 08/30/08 07:42 PM
Re: just call me pariah
[Re: MarkK]
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Registered: 06/12/08
Posts: 1755
Loc: Mojave Desert, Ca
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Mark,
A rope has many purposes. It just depends how youuu choose to use it. To hang oneself or Climb out of the pit.
The choice is always ours.
mike
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To own one's shadow is the highest moral act of a human. -Robert Johnson-
"IT ought never be forgotten that the past is the parent of the future" John C. Calhoun
WOR Alumni Sequoia 2009
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#247515 - 08/30/08 07:44 PM
Re: just call me pariah
[Re: michael banks]
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Member MaleSurvivor
Registered: 04/02/07
Posts: 2472
Loc: Denver, CO
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A rope has many purposes. It just depends how youuu choose to use it. precisely
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#247516 - 08/30/08 07:52 PM
Re: just call me pariah
[Re: MarkK]
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Registered: 06/12/08
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Loc: Mojave Desert, Ca
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Mark,
Your in my prayers.
mike
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To own one's shadow is the highest moral act of a human. -Robert Johnson-
"IT ought never be forgotten that the past is the parent of the future" John C. Calhoun
WOR Alumni Sequoia 2009
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#247521 - 08/30/08 08:33 PM
Re: just call me pariah
[Re: MarkK]
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Registered: 06/12/08
Posts: 1755
Loc: Mojave Desert, Ca
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Mark,
Just have to recognize when someone is trying to push buttons.
mike
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To own one's shadow is the highest moral act of a human. -Robert Johnson-
"IT ought never be forgotten that the past is the parent of the future" John C. Calhoun
WOR Alumni Sequoia 2009
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#247526 - 08/30/08 09:33 PM
Re: just call me pariah
[Re: michael banks]
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Member MaleSurvivor
Registered: 04/02/07
Posts: 2472
Loc: Denver, CO
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Just have to recognize when someone is trying to push buttons. i don't believe that of you - which leaves the concept that you believe it of me. which is your choice. if so, i apologize - it wasn't my intent. perhaps it would have been best if i hadn't started this lame thread. again - my apologies.
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#247707 - 09/01/08 11:15 AM
Re: just call me pariah
[Re: MarkK]
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Moderator MaleSurvivor
Registered: 02/26/08
Posts: 6151
Loc: USA
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MarkK You need to DO something about it and not just sit there with a clipboard, chalking up another one every time a so-called friend leaves. There are lots and lots of people in your territory, and many of them are potential friends for YOU. On your clipboard instead of making marks for friends lost, devise a plan of how you can meet new safe friends. Clubs, organizations related to your interests, develop new interests. Take up clogging or square dancing or something. Become a plumber and take up unclogging. Maybe you need to redefine who you are somewhat. Become ACTIVE to remidy your situation. Allen puffer 
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#247762 - 09/01/08 05:34 PM
Re: just call me pariah
[Re: pufferfish]
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Member MaleSurvivor
Registered: 04/02/07
Posts: 2472
Loc: Denver, CO
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Maybe you need to redefine who you are somewhat. i have ... redefined ... who i am for years, trying to be what others wanted/expected/whatever - so i could have "friends". instead, i think maybe i need to finally accept what i am. and am not. m
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