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#246299 - 08/23/08 06:20 PM Leaving
Tinman Offline


Registered: 05/30/08
Posts: 359
Loc: Lake Forest, CA
I have been grateful for the support I have had here. I think this site is wonderful for survivors.

But I have to leave. Something has happened and I don't know how I am going to deal with it. But it seems wrong for me to be with survivors right now.

I don't know if I'll come back. I just know I can't be here right now. But I want to assure you it has NOTHING to do with anyone here. Or this site.

To the man who talked to me in chat as I am dealing with this: Thank you. I needed that. And I need something more right now. I just don't know what it is.

I thought I could never hurt so bad again. But you never know.

Bless all of you!

Paul

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Tinman
"I finally have my heart!"

To the perps: Don't worry about me coming after you. But you damn well better watch out for God! "Vengeance is mine", saith the Lord

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#246302 - 08/23/08 07:00 PM Re: Leaving [Re: Tinman]
Logan Offline
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MaleSurvivor

Registered: 04/05/03
Posts: 1205
Loc: NY
take care of your self, Paul.

although I have never met you, I have had to take my share of breaks away from the site for various reasons.

And, although I don't know what your motivations are, the point I want to make is this is about you and taking care of yourself. You should what is good for you and make that your priority.

Again take care and we will be here, if you decide to come back.

good luck,
Logan

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"Terrible thing to live in Fear"-Shawshank Redemption
WOR Alumnus Hope Springs 2009
"Quite a thing to live in fear, this is what is means to be a slave"
-Blade Runner

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#246308 - 08/23/08 07:46 PM Re: Leaving [Re: Tinman]
Barkabus Offline
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MaleSurvivor

Registered: 05/09/08
Posts: 809
Paul,

I am so sorry to see you leave. What you are going through right now is horrific by any estimation. Please, I don't want to see you blaming yourself. If I may be so bold, I think you are leaving for the wrong reasons. I hope you reconsider.

You are in my prayers.
Mike

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#246312 - 08/23/08 08:19 PM Re: Leaving [Re: Barkabus]
wojax Offline
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Registered: 06/22/04
Posts: 171
Loc: Florida
Paul,
Leaving the site is not a real good Idea.. What ever you are going through we will stand with you as you work your way through.
Remember we are brothers and when you hurt we all hurt. Dont run from us, let us help...Nothing could make us not care for you. Please re-think....
God Bless you ..Gary

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Jer 7:23 ps 91:16

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#246377 - 08/24/08 11:55 AM Re: Leaving [Re: wojax]
michael banks Offline


Registered: 06/12/08
Posts: 1755
Loc: Mojave Desert, Ca
Paul,

I too hope that you will reconsider leaving.
I consider you as an real asset to this site.
Your vulnerablitiy and honesty has been truely inspiring for me since I came to this site.

mike

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-Robert Johnson-

"IT ought never be forgotten that the past is the parent of the future" John C. Calhoun

WOR Alumni Sequoia 2009

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