Hi, folks. The last time I posted here it was to say the woman I've been seeing had decided to move out of state. I am happy to say she has had a change of heart and she is staying.
Although we have been friends for years the decision to start seeing each other is recent. In the past I have never trusted anyone enough to start a relationship so this is new territory to me. I have no idea what I am doing. It feels like that although I am very familiar with the knowledge of how a bike works I am just a kid on training wheels.
She is going through some tough times at the moment and I am trying to be there for her. I understand how it is important to the relationship. But the kid on the bike is saying "I have to be supportive of her feelings? What about mine?" And there it is- I have to learn how to be supportive of my own, too. Then I can share them with her.
I am sorry if this isn't clear. I'm just trying to put it out there.
Negotiating the treaty for peace of mind. My Story