I'd try to find another job that I love close to where I love to live. That's my free advice that's worth everything that you paid for it.
I retired for a few years and then had to go back to work last year. Well, the new work, though very fulfilling, is about 200 miles from home. So i've been commuting to work on Monday, staying with relatives during the week and returning back home on Fridays for the weekends. It's getting really old. We're trying to find a new place that we love that will be closer to where I have to work.
Take good care of yourself,
I want to stay as close to the edge as I can without going over. Out on the edge you see all kinds of things you can't see from the center.
Kurt Vonnegut (1922-2007)