I know this is a step some never take which is of course a totally valid choice. But for any who feel as if they'd like to try it, are ready for it and wanting that in their lives, I just read a fantastic book dealing with trust and forgiveness. "The Shack". At first it seems a religious book but it's really more spiritual and a good read besides. It actually helps you understand the concept of forgiveness, makes it sink in. Anyway, hope someone can use and enjoy it.