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#241085 - 07/29/08 04:29 PM Please delete my name....
AndyJB2005 Offline
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Registered: 11/14/06
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Loc: Saint Paul, Minnesota
Please delete my username...I don't know how to do it myself.

Thank you.

Andy

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#241092 - 07/29/08 04:59 PM Re: Please delete my name.... [Re: AndyJB2005]
Thomas J Offline
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Registered: 11/21/07
Posts: 83
Loc: Oklahoma
y andy r u levin u shld stay really. tj


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#241302 - 07/30/08 07:46 AM Re: Please delete my name.... [Re: Thomas J]
BJK Offline
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Registered: 08/02/07
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I hope you reconsider, Andy. MS is a better place with you here.

Bryan

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Like la la la la la la la la la.
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#241378 - 07/30/08 03:07 PM Re: Please delete my name.... [Re: BJK]
ak Offline
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Registered: 01/10/04
Posts: 1491
I will add to this, with the PM I send to you. I hope that you will consider differently, and perhaps only take a 'break' from here, rather then wishing to leave completely. It seem that things here is perhaps some different right now then a year ago, or six months ago. But perhaps with the suggestions and presence of good, calming persons, it can again improve.

Andrei


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#241410 - 07/30/08 07:24 PM Re: Please delete my name.... [Re: ak]
Nathan LaChine Offline
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Registered: 02/22/03
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Loc: Washington State
Andy,

As Andrei has already stated the boards are different then they where six months ago. MS is an ever growing an changing place, it might not feel the right place for you right now but in a couple of months it could feel perfect for you. Give it time you account is active take a break from the site an see if feels better in a week or so.

lots of love, Nathan


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#241652 - 08/01/08 12:37 AM Re: Please delete my name.... [Re: Nathan LaChine]
JustJeff Offline
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Registered: 03/19/08
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how are the boards different?

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#242280 - 08/04/08 01:47 PM Re: Please delete my name.... [Re: JustJeff]
VN Offline
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Registered: 06/03/05
Posts: 723
Andy,

I am not sure what specific get at you to wish to leave from here, but I will speak with the others that I hope it is only temporary. You have a special spirit of you that this place, it certainly need more of it. I wish you good luck and good healing, and do hope that you will at some time return when you can.

VN


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#242375 - 08/04/08 09:09 PM Re: Please delete my name.... [Re: VN]
BJK Offline
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Originally Posted By: VN
You have a special spirit of you that this place, it certainly need more of it.


You have a unique way of putting things....

I couldn't have said it better myself.

Bryan

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Revenge is nothing more than another way of perpetuating abuse.

What the world needs now
Is some new words of wisdom
Like la la la la la la la la la.
-David Lowery

Having a friend who will keep a secret for you is worthless compared to a friend who won't keep a secret from you.

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#242393 - 08/04/08 10:00 PM Re: Please delete my name.... [Re: BJK]
Still Offline
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Registered: 02/16/07
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Loc: FEMA Region 1
If we (WE = individual members and BOD members) dont bother to examine what drives someone like Andy away and the fix it, we may as well shut-down the server right now.

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#242438 - 08/05/08 08:54 AM Re: Please delete my name.... [Re: Still]
JustScott Offline
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Registered: 01/27/08
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Blah



Edited by JustScott (08/06/08 08:09 AM)

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#242565 - 08/05/08 05:48 PM Re: Please delete my name.... [Re: JustScott]
Still Offline
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Registered: 02/16/07
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Well, if it IS all a charade, you'd expect a little more smoke and mirrors, like perhaps some empty motions to appear concerned.

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#242794 - 08/06/08 04:38 PM Re: Please delete my name.... [Re: Nathan LaChine]
jcf1957 Offline
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Registered: 09/11/07
Posts: 192
Loc: North Of The 49th Parallel
Originally Posted By: Nathan
Andy,

As Andrei has already stated the boards are different then they where six months ago. MS is an ever growing an changing place, it might not feel the right place for you right now but in a couple of months it could feel perfect for you. Give it time you account is active take a break from the site an see if feels better in a week or so.

lots of love, Nathan

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Andy;

What Nathan said may not be what you wanted to hear a this moment
but; I think it was well said.

I wish I could articulate the right appropriate words to say right now.
I find myself having to take long extended breaks from M.S.
It all gets too emotionally triggering at times. Too damned hard on the head. I need to rest and clear my head.
How many post's have you seen that state that the author of the post ("Didn't Feel That They Fit In Here At M.S.")
Well; I'm not going to rehash this topic again except to say that I believe there are a lot of guys here who can identify with this theme in some form or degree.
Sometimes at M.S. there are to many wrong things said by people that brings a lot hurt to others. And yes; I am humble enough to say that I have been caught off-guard doing this.

We all have to be man enough to admit our frailties and errors.

Andy; I can only hope your not leaving for the wrong reasons.
As Nathan said; maybe all you need is a break to clear your thoughts and find some inner peace.

Take Good Care of Yourself Brother
Hope to see you back soon.

Chris

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Today well lived...makes every tomorrow a vision of Hope.
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#245555 - 08/19/08 01:20 PM Re: Please delete my name.... [Re: jcf1957]
blueshift Offline
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Registered: 01/21/08
Posts: 1242
Loc: infinity
Andy you will be missed if you go. Only u know what's best 4 u, but I just hope u stay for own self. U been a good presence here. I don't know what your reasons R though, so like I said only u can say what's best.

Doug


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