Tinman you said "I am not so sure I will take meds. I hate the idea. I have fought my T on this for two years."
Ok so it's a decision:
Take the meds, stop fighting with the therapist
Don't take the meds, continue fighting with the therapist
Don't take the meds, drop whoever insists you take meds, find one that lets you run your own show.
Take the meds, fight with the therapist anyway!
Keep 'im on his toes.
Which is best for you?
The psychiatrist might have mentioned a rationale for taking the drugs. Perhaps referring back to that reason will be helpful? Then you can examine the reason for yourself and decide if it outweighs your feelings about drugs. If it doesn't take options 2 or 3.