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#236929 - 07/09/08 08:02 AM Need some luck
tazrad Offline
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Registered: 04/22/08
Posts: 88
Loc: FL USA
Today I go to court to fight for more visitation rights with my kids. It will be a tough day because I am going to have to stand up for myself and speak my mind.

One of my main issues is that avoid confrontations at all cost. Even when I get in an argument I tend to hold the argument in my head first then with the person which tends to delay my responses.

Today, I will speak my mind, speak the truth and hold nothing back. Be calm but assertive. Be Proud of me and my life. Show the world that I love my children and want them more.

Wish me luck.

Gregg


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#236932 - 07/09/08 08:11 AM Re: Need some luck [Re: tazrad]
Sans Logos Offline
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Registered: 05/31/03
Posts: 5791
Loc: in my own world in pittsburgh,...
taz, i will keep you at the top of my mind this morning. i remember when i was preparing to fight this fight in 1985--that was the at the same time i was recovering from drug and alcohol compulsion. you will be fine, just remember to breathe and try to remain detached from your own reactivity. i am proud of you for your courage! please keep us posted on the outcome.

ron

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#236936 - 07/09/08 09:08 AM Re: Need some luck [Re: Sans Logos]
Muldoon Offline
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Registered: 05/30/02
Posts: 1428
Loc: St Paul MN
Gregg will be sending you positive energy today. I am right there at your side.

tom

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Teach the Children to Never Hide in the Silence

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#236938 - 07/09/08 09:38 AM Re: Need some luck [Re: Muldoon]
KENKEN Offline
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Registered: 09/25/07
Posts: 762
Loc: NOTHERN COLORADO
Gregg,
You will be in my thoughts and prayers today also. It has been many years for me since I had to do the very same thing you are up to today.

You are a good man, You are a good person. We are all proud of you including your KIDS

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I AM A GOOD PERSON, I AM A GOOD MAN

From the Movie: Antwone Fisher

***WOR ALUMNI SEQUOIA MARCH 2008***

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#236953 - 07/09/08 11:05 AM Re: Need some luck [Re: KENKEN]
TJ jeff Offline

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Gregg,

wishing you the very best in court today - you can do it - these are YOUR kids who you love very much - keep the love of them foremost in your mind and the right words will just pour out in the courtroom

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Who will cry for the little boy? - I will... - Antwone Fisher

Abuse happens in silence/isolation - Recovery happens only when that silence/isolation is broken...

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#237049 - 07/09/08 04:38 PM Re: Need some luck [Re: TJ jeff]
1islandboy Offline
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Registered: 06/23/08
Posts: 858
Loc: washington
taz

I just did a devotion to my H.P. in your honor. I hope it helps.

I would also like to say, YOU ARE NOT ALONE. My wife brought up my abuse during my divorce.

Not only am I not in danger of molesting anyone, I now view myself as a protector.
no one should have to go through what we are/went through. There are a lot of sick individuals out there.

If anyone is picking sides, I fight for the GOOD.

island

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Rise above the storm and you will find the sunshine ~ M.F. Fernandez

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#237099 - 07/09/08 08:06 PM Re: Need some luck [Re: 1islandboy]
tazrad Offline
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Registered: 04/22/08
Posts: 88
Loc: FL USA
Well Guys thanks for your support.

We lost. The judge ruled in favor of the ex wife bull shit. I was victim of steoro typing. The judge does not like for the kids to spend a school night away from there primary home. The judge did not even take testomy.

I am very upset and want revenge. Anyway I can get it.

Thanks for your support

Gregg


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#237108 - 07/09/08 08:14 PM Re: Need some luck [Re: tazrad]
KENKEN Offline
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Registered: 09/25/07
Posts: 762
Loc: NOTHERN COLORADO
Really feel bad the outcome whas not what you certainly wanted or deserved.

However, your chldren are so fortunate to have a dad who cares so much for them. I only wish my dad was as careing as you. I am so proud of you.

Ken

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I AM A GOOD PERSON, I AM A GOOD MAN

From the Movie: Antwone Fisher

***WOR ALUMNI SEQUOIA MARCH 2008***

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