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#236794 - 07/08/08 01:42 PM DISCLOSE????
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Some of you may be aware of the situation in Gloucester MA, where a large number of High School GIRLS became pregnant this past school year. That vast majority were impregnated by guys in their 20s.

I bring this up not because it was a disclosure, but it is prima-facia evidence that the public defaults to blaming the sex-abuse victim far too often.

The news of the teen pregnancies were made public and the fingure of blame and shame pointed toward the girls in the well-rehearsed manner we are all so use to.

Some of the messages I've picked up from talk radio and the papers.

"Well...those Gloucester girls have always been easy."
"How can you blame these guys?"
"Gloucester girls go looking for it."
"Welfare efforts begin early in Gloucester."
"What do you expect??? Its Gloucester!!"
"MAN...I wish I grew up in that town!...hehehehe!"

I'm sorry to say I've heard NO comments on the age difference in these cases. The news reported that one of the guys was a 27 yo and many others were in their 20s. Some girls are as young as 13.

The normals behave LIKE F**KING ANIMALS in ANY child sex abuse cases where THEY think there were ANY options open to the victim; Like "why the heck did he go back for more?"

DOUBT ME THAT THEY ACT LIKE ANIMALS???? LOOK AT THIS VIDEO OF A JULY 4 PARADE FROM THE NEIGHBORING TOWN OF BEVERLY. THERE ARE SEVERAL PARADE ENTRIES THAT MOCK THESE GIRLS IN A VERY GROTESQUE MANNER...SO WATCH ALL OF IT PLEASE IF YOU WILL. BTW: IF I WAS PRESENT FOR THIS PARADE, I'D BE IN JAIL TODAY.

Oh...and this is the area I grew up in.

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=VwlDoUSyktI

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#236811 - 07/08/08 03:11 PM Re: DISCLOSE???? [Re: Still]
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Yikes! Who organized this parade? In any responsible place there would have been a storm of protest at this. Thanks for posting this video, Rob.

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#236812 - 07/08/08 03:18 PM Re: DISCLOSE???? [Re: roadrunner]
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That's pretty stunning. Ugh.

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#236818 - 07/08/08 04:46 PM Re: DISCLOSE???? [Re: EGL]
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My healing mentor was a football coach at a Div 1 university here in New England. He said that the guys they recruited from this area (area in and around Beverly) had a sence of entitelment that was so acute, it was a real problem.

So you can see what I was dealing with as a kid. My four perps were of this same heard of devils. Now the world can see who they blame in adult/child sexual abuse.

Disclosure would have meant the end of my life.

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#236824 - 07/08/08 05:45 PM Re: DISCLOSE???? [Re: Still]
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That really does bring into sharp focus the mentality of people you were dealing with in the community there, Rob. I can't imagine a kid feeling like he had any chance at disclosure there.

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#236830 - 07/08/08 06:08 PM Re: DISCLOSE???? [Re: EGL]
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VERY good news Eddie!

I hope it brings 100 times more shame upon them than they tried to put on the girls of Gloucester.

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#236948 - 07/09/08 10:42 AM Re: DISCLOSE???? [Re: Still]
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Rob...

watching that video makes me very very sad for those girls - it's almost unbelievable that floats like that would even be allowed into a parade

I can guarantee you that here in the small town I live in floats like that would NOT have been allowed!!!

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#236951 - 07/09/08 10:47 AM Re: DISCLOSE???? [Re: TJ jeff]
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Having traveled in 49 states extensively over the past 25 years, I've found the New England blue-bloods to be particularly vicious, nasty and fowl human beings. Add to it the entitled "jock" mentality and tribal dynamic, you get horrible things like this happening to the perceived weak ones of the heard.

My heart breaks for these girls. It really does...and I HATE my home-town's people.

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