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#236486 - 07/07/08 06:08 AM Affirmations for Partners
indygal Offline
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Registered: 06/22/06
Posts: 439
It is a long journey letting go of someone you love so very much while standing there, helpless to stop the hurt and pain. This is part of my healing journey. I hope anyone who feels like it will respond.


It's not MY fault you were hurt.
It's not MY fault you can't always respond to my touch.

It's not MY fault you can't express your feelings to me, be they good, bad, or whatever.
It's not MY fault you can't verbalize your thoughts without becoming agitated.

It's not MY fault you have anxiety attacks which make you violently ill.
It's not MY fault that you cannot find joy or happiness in your life as I do.

It's not MY fault that you are not able to give more to our relationship.

It's not MY fault that society, in general, doesn't understand or support male survivors.

It's not MY fault that you cannot set and accomplish goals for yourself as I have set for myself.


enough for now, I think you all get the drift. I hope some partners will join in; this is meant to be therapeutic and to help us regain our own sense of self-worth which is sometimes trampled by our partner's issues.

Indy



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my avatar is one of the Battle Angel characters, fighting the good fight.

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#236551 - 07/07/08 03:30 PM Re: Affirmations for Partners [Re: indygal]
NY Daisy Offline
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Registered: 02/29/08
Posts: 183
It's not my fault they didn't want to hear it.

It's not my fault they didn't want to talk about it.

It's not my fault they wouldn't listen.

It's not my fault they blamed you.

It's not my fault they took his side, and protected him.

It's not my fault they are ignorant.

It's not my fault they would rather live in denial then face the truth.

It's not my fault, that they are missing out on how wonderful a person you are.

GUESS WHAT? IT'S NOT YOUR FAULT EITHER. STOP BLAMING YOURSELF FOR THEIR STUPIDITY.

They have no one to blame but themselves.

I did hear it.

I did want to talk about it.

I did listen.

I didn't blame you.

I am on your side, I was not ignorant.

I have given you something that they never could, unconditional love.
Please trust that, trust me.
Denial has alot of power over you right now, don't let it destroy you, my love is unconditional,but it takes two people to make a relationship work,and I can't do it by myself anymore.

Please see what I see, NYDAISY


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#236843 - 07/08/08 07:57 PM Re: Affirmations for Partners [Re: NY Daisy]
Junefriday Offline


Registered: 06/05/08
Posts: 113
Loc: Canada
It's not my fault that no one protected you when you needed it.

It's not my fault that I wasn't in your life when you needed me most.

It's not my fault that no one heard you cry yourself to sleep.

It's not my fault that you see me as the enemy.

It's not my fault that you can't see me for who I really am.

It's not my fault that I need to feel loved too.

It's not my fault that you push me away.

It's not my fault that WE are ending.

It's not my fault that I still love you and that I will never stop.

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"Love comes to those who still hope even though they've been disappointed, to those who still believe even though they've been betrayed, to those who still love even though they've been hurt before.

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