I am not sure why you say that your response may not be popular.
You seem to have done a great job in describing and analysing what happened and the resulting outcomes.
Don't forget, I (we) often feel the need to "recreate" the circumstances in order to forensically analyse and solve the "thing". So this is really helpful in that you have put words to some of my confusion and given me some insight into myself.
I have to print this off and take a while to read it. Actually I think I will do that slowly, because there is too much to take in at once.
I hope the females involved in this episode (LittleMiss for example) can get something out of this. If only they could make their partners read what you have written, just maybe the penny might drop. Some positive construction out of all this destruction really would be nice.
I don't think I have made any sense but I really appreciate your input, because positive input from a female maybe will help to undo that feeling that I wasn't protected by people that should have protected me.