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#238742 - 07/18/08 07:26 AM Re: If only you knew... [Re: Junefriday]
Abigale Offline


Registered: 07/16/08
Posts: 28
Loc: Northern NJ
This is so hard for me. I am going through so much watching my husband disconnect himself from everyone that loves him so.He is going for help, but insists that I will not be the one he will grow old with. All our dreams that we made together are gone. I am so sad. I know this isn't what this was supposed to be about, sorry.

I wish you knew the man I see everyday.
I wish you knew the happiness I see within you
I wish you knew real love
I wish you knew true happiness
I wish you knew the future


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#238744 - 07/18/08 07:34 AM Re: If only you knew... [Re: Abigale]
Trish4850 Offline
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Registered: 10/15/05
Posts: 3280
Loc: New Jersey
Welcome Abigale,

I'm sorry I didn't see you before now, I've been away from the board for a few days. I'll be back tonight.

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If you fall down 10 times, Stand up 11.

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#238861 - 07/18/08 10:37 PM Re: If only you knew... [Re: Trish4850]
tjnwm Offline
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Registered: 05/14/07
Posts: 6
What a great thread to start--so many of those wishes I wish too.

A few of mine are . . .

I wish you'd have told me when you told me you loved me, so maybe your pain could have been less in all these years.

I wish you knew how much it means to me you told me.

I wish you knew the pain you see in me is tiny to the pain I know you've had.

I wish I could have saved you somehow then.

I wish you would have let me try to save you since.


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#239619 - 07/22/08 10:41 PM Re: If only you knew... [Re: Junefriday]
thecoopstah Offline
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MaleSurvivor

Registered: 07/19/04
Posts: 589
Loc: massachusetts
I wish you knew how special you are and that no one will ever convince me otherwise.

I wish you knew the courage it took for you to let me know you're hurting yet trusted me and i love you bunches.

Coop

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" You never know how strong you are until being strong is the only choice you have "

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#240220 - 07/25/08 07:32 PM Re: If only you knew... [Re: thecoopstah]
LittleMiss Offline


Registered: 07/02/08
Posts: 66
Loc: USA
I wish you knew how to laugh.

I wish you knew how to smile.

I wish you knew what you look like through my eyes.

I wish you knew the man I know.

I wish you knew how to let me love you.

I wish you knew what you want out of life.

I wish you knew how to relax and 'just be'.

I wish you knew that it is ok to disagree, love still remains.

I wish you knew you can push and push - but I will never be gone.

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LittleMiss

The woods are lovely, dark and deep. But I have promises to keep,
And miles to go before I sleep, And miles to go before I sleep.

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#240362 - 07/26/08 01:03 PM Re: If only you knew... [Re: Junefriday]
dangal Offline
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Registered: 02/09/08
Posts: 222
Loc: seattle area
I took the I wish you knew posts and borrowed some, added a ton of my own and gave them to my husband a few weeks ago. Not all of them were positive, yet he read it and kissed me and said thank you baby. I know we are doing well, but I didn't expect him to take the bad as well as the good...sheesh, happily suprised in seattle!

this is an amazing place for us ladies. Don't go anywhere k?

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~Jen~
Life is to short to blend in

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#240604 - 07/27/08 08:14 PM Re: If only you knew... [Re: Junefriday]
Enough is enough Offline


Registered: 07/27/08
Posts: 1
I wish you knew how tired I am
I wish you knew how much you have drained my soul
I wish you knew how much I have sacraficed for you
I wish you knew that I want to leave you, but love you to much
I wish you knew that I can't take your lies anymore
I wish you knew that you have allowed your abuser to victimize our relationship.




Edited by Enough is enough (07/27/08 08:17 PM)

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#240647 - 07/28/08 01:02 AM Re: If only you knew... [Re: Enough is enough]
NY Daisy Offline
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Registered: 02/29/08
Posts: 183
Enough is enough,

I WISH YOU KNEW THAT YOU HAVE ALLOWED YOUR ABUSER TO VICTIMIZE OUR RELATIONSHIP.

This is a powerful statement. I like it, alot. So true.


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#240876 - 07/28/08 10:31 PM Re: If only you knew... [Re: NY Daisy]
Junefriday Offline


Registered: 06/05/08
Posts: 113
Loc: Canada
I wish you knew how hard I fight to see past what you've become.
I wish you knew that you aren't the only one with nightmares anymore.
I wish you knew that you might leave my life, but you'll never leave my mind or my heart.

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"Love comes to those who still hope even though they've been disappointed, to those who still believe even though they've been betrayed, to those who still love even though they've been hurt before.

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#240924 - 07/29/08 08:01 AM Re: If only you knew... [Re: Junefriday]
LittleMiss Offline


Registered: 07/02/08
Posts: 66
Loc: USA
Originally Posted By: Junefriday
I wish you knew that you aren't the only one with nightmares anymore.


That's a good one, June. The effects of abuse reach far and wide.

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LittleMiss

The woods are lovely, dark and deep. But I have promises to keep,
And miles to go before I sleep, And miles to go before I sleep.

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