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#234305 - 06/28/08 12:55 PM Re: Why did I never tell? [Re: dark empathy]
hogan_dawg Offline

Registered: 03/26/08
Posts: 492
You're an interesting guy DarkEmpathy with a very unique past and I hope you get your answers. Or make 'em up as you go.

I think you're on a good track. \:\)

I can say unequivocally that the lie of "To truly heal you must first forgive" has derailed more victims than the abusers themselves.
Andrew Vachs, 2003

#234347 - 06/28/08 07:11 PM Re: Why did I never tell? [Re: hogan_dawg]
dark empathy Offline

Registered: 11/26/07
Posts: 2024
Loc: durham, north england
Thanks Hogan. some senses of "unique" I really could've done without, ---- though some like the seminar were good.

I do sometimes wish though, ---- everytime I read harry potter or in fact hear about someone who had a Gf at 15 or 15, or got their first kiss at secondary school.

A thought that stil torments me, --- however illogical, however wrong, is that the physically closest anyone's ever been to me was while insulting and humiliating me.

My friends, --- and my T have said this is the wrong way round, and the reason nobody ever has! got closer to me is because of what happened as a teenager, ----- but that's an incredibly hard step to take.

then again, the other day I found something I'd written while 22, which said my age on it, and for the first time for a long time I was able to think "well, that wasn't long ago" and not start thinking that I'd passed all my chances and was getting old at 25.

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