1. The big one for me was fear of not being believed. That one was drilled into me by the abuser, of course.
2. I guess there is one that still troubles me, and that would be fear of returning to drugs, even though I have been clean nearly 33 years. And yeah, I guess being shamed by others for the things I was willing to do for the sake of drugs back then. Long time ago, but it still eats at me somehow.
Good thread. We have to talk about this stuff otherwise it will continue to influence us.
Nobody living can ever stop me
As I go walking my freedom highway.
Nobody living can make me turn back:
This land was made for you and me. (Woody Guthrie)