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#230076 - 06/10/08 10:28 AM Re: The Violence of Silence [Re: Justintime]
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Registered: 01/27/08
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The feelings that we deserved what happened to us, the feelings that it was our fault someone. We have those feelings, but they're not right. We feel them, but they aren't true. We all here struggle with those feelings. It's the nature of this evil that was done to us. Makes us try to take the blame for what happened, when the blame really belongs to others. You're parents had a responsibility to protect you and keep you safe, and they failed miserably, and even cause much of your troubles by send you out to get their fix for them. The blame is theirs and those that hurt you.

But you still feel like it was your fault. Those feelings are false feelings. It's hard to get to a place where we can begin to deal with them and correct them.


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#230079 - 06/10/08 10:36 AM Re: The Violence of Silence [Re: JustScott]
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Registered: 06/02/08
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its all seeming like to much to even try to fix it


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#230083 - 06/10/08 10:50 AM Re: The Violence of Silence [Re: Justintime]
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I can certainly feel overwhelming at first. It's just one tiny step at a time. It's a long road, but it is worth it!


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#230085 - 06/10/08 10:58 AM Re: The Violence of Silence [Re: JustScott]
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why is it worth it


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#230087 - 06/10/08 11:10 AM Re: The Violence of Silence [Re: Justintime]
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Because, believe it or not, you are worth it. You deserve better. You deserve to be free of all the pain and anguish all this has caused you.


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