I know some people want to demonize all abusers and some are very evil people and some aren't. My abuser was my older brother and my T taught me a very important thing, its ok to love him because he's my brother but be angry at him for what he did to me. I think that you can apply the same thing to your uncle.
There are 2 important things to remember in all of this
1. Its not your fault
2. Recovery is possible
"Being with people that understand you...Priceless"
"and i don't want the world to see me, cause i don't think that they'd understand"
"You don't know what love is...you just do as your told"
"My life has changed. What you take as a simple thing, is not so simple for me anymore"