It seems like many of our parents didnít help us prepare or get through puberty. Iíd imagine many parents falter here, or maybe itís because they failed us on other levels by either allowing the abuse to happen in our young lives or at least in failing to see that it was happening. On that front, who of us survivors would not be able to see the signs in another young child today?
Also, my older perp brother whilst having his way with me also made fun of my smaller (at the time) penis. After he got me to ejaculate the first time and I got so scared about what was happening I thought I was in pain, he simply laughed and told me not to be so stupid.
Again, very anti things to deposit into my mind about puberty and sex. Any wonder Iíve had huge issues with body self image and envying other males who are Ďbetterí than me on the looks front.
Puberty Ė yep. Another source of pain.