I'm just like you. I compare notes. As overwhelmingly difficult as it is for me on an emotional level to work through my CSA, I read the stories of many others and I am horrified at what some people have been through. Some of it makes me sick to my stomach.
I have pretty good recollection of two different perps at two different times in my life, from 10-13 and from 16-17. Thing of it is, by my own estimation, the enormity of the emotional distress that I am going through doesn't seem to match what I currently recall from memory. I know we're all affected differently so I may just be off base. However, I'm sensing more and more that there may have been a CSA incident when I was much younger (2-5 year range). I don't have any specific memories of this but when I have periods of emotional release, I feel quite strongly that there is something else under the surface waiting to pop up. There are several hints that I do have snapshot memories of that make me suspect this age range but the snapshots on their own are inconclusive.
Mark, if you don't mind me asking, how did you become aware of your CSA when you were 2? Was it a repressed memory that came back to you? If so, what do you think prompted its come back?