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#223632 - 05/11/08 12:33 AM DO SOMETHING ABOUT IT!
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Registered: 01/26/08
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Loc: USA
Look, we can go on and on about this topic. Speak up! Do something about it. You are the only one who can change things.

This is what happened when I came forward.
Let's not cry about what happened to us. It's pay back time! That fucker that did that to me got over a hundred years in prison.

If anyone wants to know how I did this please ask.




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#223664 - 05/11/08 03:54 AM Re: DO SOMETHING ABOUT IT! [Re: Dude.]
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Registered: 01/10/04
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I am glad that you get success with this, and that he receive such the sentence. But I do not think that any people here is really just 'crying about it'. I think that pretty most everyone here is doing the best they can.

andrei


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#223712 - 05/11/08 12:26 PM Re: DO SOMETHING ABOUT IT! [Re: ak]
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Hi Dude,

Thanks for posting the article, it's good to see some of the positive aspects of all this, which is that those who go on
actively hurting people are finally taken out of circulation. From the article, it's clear he'll never be able to hurt anyone else again.

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#223717 - 05/11/08 12:41 PM Re: DO SOMETHING ABOUT IT! [Re: EGL]
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Hi Dude,

This was directly a result of your actions?


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#223720 - 05/11/08 01:17 PM Re: DO SOMETHING ABOUT IT! [Re: Hauser]
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Originally Posted By: Hauser
Hi Dude,

This was directly a result of your actions?


Yes.

I didn't think anything would happen when I called the police last year. The detective that worked on this case did an amazing job. It was a hard thing to go through. I'm really glad the other victims came forward after seeing this on the news last year, it made the case much stronger.



Edited by Dude. (05/11/08 01:18 PM)

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#223729 - 05/11/08 03:50 PM Re: DO SOMETHING ABOUT IT! [Re: Dude.]
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Quote:
Look, we can go on and on about this topic. Speak up! Do something about it. You are the only one who can change things.


I guess it's a good result, but some of us don't have the power to be able to identify the perp.

Some guys who did tell, even saw the perp walk completely free, and left to live in the community as if nothing had happened.

It seems to be a roulette wheel of indifference on how these cases are/not vigorously pursued in Courts, and the outcome can be very different and confusing to anybody who does not find closure,

ste

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#223739 - 05/11/08 04:47 PM Re: DO SOMETHING ABOUT IT! [Re: reality2k4]
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With this kind of publicity, this guy's prison term won't be much of a picnic. He won't see daylight before he dies.


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#223919 - 05/12/08 03:31 PM Re: DO SOMETHING ABOUT IT! [Re: Ken Singer, LCSW]
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Registered: 01/27/08
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I'm glad the laws in your state let you go after this guy. In the state I grew up in, the crime has to be reported before the victim's 23rd birthday. Which is a crock of shit, since the average for people opening up about their abuse is in the 30's.


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#231093 - 06/15/08 06:09 AM Re: DO SOMETHING ABOUT IT! [Re: JustScott]
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Registered: 05/02/05
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Dude,

I missed this when you first posted it but I'm glad you brought it back to our attention. This guy will have plenty of time to think about what he has done, and the other criminals in prison will be sure to remind him.

Much love,
Larry

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As I go walking my freedom highway.
Nobody living can make me turn back:
This land was made for you and me.
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#231249 - 06/16/08 02:48 AM Re: DO SOMETHING ABOUT IT! [Re: roadrunner]
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Registered: 06/12/08
Posts: 1755
Loc: Mojave Desert, Ca
Does anyone know what the laws are in Arizona. I found my prep today he now lives in Florida. He sexually abused me in the seventies. is it too late. -----Mike ----

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