jer you said,
"What a reality for me this is! I laughed when I read this. A playful part of me extends it to so many other issues...
Who's the most healed? Who's had the worse abuse? Who's the wisest of them all? Who's in the most pain?
Who's the most dysfunctional? Let's play "Name that Dysfunction!" I'm sometimes able to recognize when I
engage in these games. I have real difficulty knowing when I'm acting out of veiled aggression.
I'm glad you went where you did with this playing with it. It sounds like your sense of humor is a big, strong part of your survivor resilience. A T once remarked at my sense of humor in my ability to laugh at myself. Another said I had made he first joke about incest that was actually funny, So here it is "My family is into insects and it still bugs me." OK so I'm not Robin williams. Anyway I often find myself saying, "I'm doing it again". Your statement had me grinnin ear to ear. Thank you jer. And I look forward to more of your "crap"