The basic rule of thumb is yes, post all you want in F&F, no, never post in the male survivor forum or story forum. As for the others, be smart and cautious. In the beginning, which is where you are, it's best to get a feel for how the board works and which conversation really are just for the men here. 99.9% of the guys here welcome us women, but sometimes, just the fact of us being here can be triggering. It's not an indictment of our gender, just a fact that needs to be dealt with from all sides.
Marissa, I see that you've posted alot in just a few hours - breathe my friend. This is all very, very overwhelming at first. You want to spill it all out at once, but that'll never happen and can actually be damaging. I'm not asking you not to say or ask what you feel, just do it in increments you can handle.
As for other web addresses, we discourage it simply because we don't have any control over other sites. What may be fabulous for one, may be horribly triggering to another. We can't check on every site. Paramount to the Malesurvivor site is the safety of it's members.
If you fall down 10 times, Stand up 11.