So - I have been reading here and see that internet porn is mentioned as a form of "acting out" for victims of CSA.
We had issues with this - I just thought it was a "guy thing" - no?
He was looking at porn - I caught him - was horribly wounded (I was still in the throws of my eating disorder and body hatred at the time, so it was devastating). He promised never to do it again, blah, blha, blah. That didn't last - he did it again, promised not to, etc, did it AGAIN - I htink that was the last time.... Then when I was out of town one weekend he rented porn with a friend - I found the receipt - again - apologized for betraying my trust and so on.
Since then I have worked through my own issues with the porn - I don't feel threatened by it anymore, and he does like to watch it - but we don't do it too often - it really isn't my cup of tea, so to speak.
Back to my original question - don't sopme guys just like internet porn without it being related to CSA? Is porn (videos or mags) detrimental to recovering from CSA?
I guess a need a LOT more info about all of this...