Absolutely nothing. Asking for a reason why or some sort of recognition from them would be pointless, they probably don't even remember, and if they do they probably stil think it was just harmless joking.

I doubt I'll ever see them again, which is fine with me.

Why do you want to know?

Nothing but a simple apology. I think that would make me come to terms with my CSA. Or simply to say to him that I forgive him for what he has done but I will never forget for the rest of my life. My wound is starting to scar and now its time to move on in life.

I want answers to why, just why did he, how could he sexual abuse his younger brother.

Answers to questions I probably will never get, but dammit, I still want them.

Ken

Good question GateKPR4 - seems a bit strange to post four messages asking "what was the one charateristic of your abuser," "what do you want from your abuser," "write a letter to your abuser," and "what has the abuse cost you" all on the same day. The only other posts by justanother121 are three posts of the same poem. Are you out there justanother121? What are you looking for?

Mike

Nothing, even though some has been offered.

andrei

To stay in jail for his full term. 50 years

nothing but to be left alone....

MONEY!!! I was raped buy a so called CERTIFIED Psychologist for New York State. When I find another victim that was at that halfway house that will testify I will be reimbursed for all of the money I have shelled out for therapy, and more.( Red neck victim's retirement)

Nothing. I wrote him out of my life and concerns and I just don't bother with him anymore. Or at least, this is the attitude i try to adhere to.

But I understand that for some guys this question is of vital importance. If the abuser is your parent or sibling, for example, I can imagine a guy might want reconciliation provided it comes under the right terms.

Much love,
Larry