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#221168 - 04/28/08 04:43 PM Re: what do you want from your abuser. [Re: ineffable]
dark empathy Offline
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Absolutely nothing. Asking for a reason why or some sort of recognition from them would be pointless, they probably don't even remember, and if they do they probably stil think it was just harmless joking.

I doubt I'll ever see them again, which is fine with me.


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#221174 - 04/28/08 05:00 PM Re: what do you want from your abuser. [Re: justanother121]
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Quote:
what do you want from your abuser.


Why do you want to know?

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#221177 - 04/28/08 05:13 PM . [Re: ineffable]
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Edited by bardo213 (06/21/13 06:03 PM)

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#221181 - 04/28/08 05:25 PM Re: what do you want from your abuser. [Re: ineffable]
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I want answers to why, just why did he, how could he sexual abuse his younger brother.

Answers to questions I probably will never get, but dammit, I still want them.

Ken

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#221188 - 04/28/08 06:27 PM Re: what do you want from your abuser. [Re: GateKPR4]
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Originally Posted By: GateKPR4
Why do you want to know?


Good question GateKPR4 - seems a bit strange to post four messages asking "what was the one charateristic of your abuser," "what do you want from your abuser," "write a letter to your abuser," and "what has the abuse cost you" all on the same day. The only other posts by justanother121 are three posts of the same poem. Are you out there justanother121? What are you looking for?

Mike


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#221190 - 04/28/08 06:47 PM Re: what do you want from your abuser. [Re: mike5]
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Nothing, even though some has been offered.

andrei


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#221220 - 04/28/08 08:38 PM Re: what do you want from your abuser. [Re: ak]
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To stay in jail for his full term. 50 years


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#221260 - 04/28/08 11:40 PM Re: what do you want from your abuser. [Re: ineffable]
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Loc: Cranston, RI
nothing but to be left alone....

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#221324 - 04/29/08 06:27 AM Re: what do you want from your abuser. [Re: justanother121]
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Registered: 04/16/08
Posts: 59
Loc: New York
MONEY!!! I was raped buy a so called CERTIFIED Psychologist for New York State. When I find another victim that was at that halfway house that will testify I will be reimbursed for all of the money I have shelled out for therapy, and more.( Red neck victim's retirement)



Edited by Hourglass52 (04/29/08 06:29 AM)
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#221343 - 04/29/08 08:54 AM Re: what do you want from your abuser. [Re: ineffable]
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Nothing. I wrote him out of my life and concerns and I just don't bother with him anymore. Or at least, this is the attitude i try to adhere to.

But I understand that for some guys this question is of vital importance. If the abuser is your parent or sibling, for example, I can imagine a guy might want reconciliation provided it comes under the right terms.

Much love,
Larry

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