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#221083 - 04/28/08 12:57 PM what do you want from your abuser.
justanother121 Offline
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Registered: 04/14/08
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what do you want from your abuser?


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#221089 - 04/28/08 01:10 PM Re: what do you want from your abuser. [Re: justanother121]
JustScott Offline
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Registered: 01/27/08
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Nothing really, they've done enough already. Guess I could say I want them to never cross my path again really.


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#221090 - 04/28/08 01:10 PM Re: what do you want from your abuser. [Re: justanother121]
Freedom49 Offline
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Registered: 12/30/07
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I would have liked my dad to apologize. To ask forgivness and admit what he did was horrible and shameful and that he would like to make it up to me somehow. I want him to say he is proud of me and the way I overcame all his damage. That I was a good kid. That I did nothing wrong.

that will never happen. Moot point. Some issues are no longer worth attending to justanother. Think about it.


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#221098 - 04/28/08 01:19 PM Re: what do you want from your abuser. [Re: Freedom49]
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The one thing I want from my abuser is to accept that I exist as a male survivor. Abusers almost always deny what they did and in the process deny that we exist as individuals wounded at THEIR hand.

Truthfully the only thing I expect from him is to hear me.

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#221137 - 04/28/08 03:19 PM Re: what do you want from your abuser. [Re: menspeakout]
OKIE MIKE Offline
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For him to realise that he destroyed my life . And that I will NEAVER forget what he did .

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#221147 - 04/28/08 03:39 PM Re: what do you want from your abuser. [Re: OKIE MIKE]
JustJeff Offline
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Registered: 03/19/08
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For him to get seriously injured and also to never cross my path again.

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#221150 - 04/28/08 03:51 PM Re: what do you want from your abuser. [Re: JustJeff]
mogigo Offline
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Registered: 04/24/07
Posts: 1331
Loc: Colorado
Don't know, to rest in peace and maybe finally understand what she did to me. To finally feel me maybe.

To feel what I feel, maybe I'm hoping too much.

Mike

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#221151 - 04/28/08 03:55 PM Re: what do you want from your abuser. [Re: mogigo]
MarkK Offline
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Registered: 04/02/07
Posts: 2502
Loc: Denver, CO
nada


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#221154 - 04/28/08 04:06 PM Re: what do you want from your abuser. [Re: MarkK]
king tut Offline
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Loc: UK
nothing, i dont think, maybe answers, like why

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#221157 - 04/28/08 04:16 PM Re: what do you want from your abuser. [Re: king tut]
ineffable Offline
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Registered: 02/07/08
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Loc: state of holeecrapdood
Nothing from them
BUT... I want them to know that I am reclaiming my manhood, my sexuality & my vulnerability

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