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#231300 - 06/16/08 01:15 PM Re: what was the one charateristic of your abuser. [Re: king tut]
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Registered: 06/02/08
Posts: 50
Intimidating


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#231311 - 06/16/08 02:28 PM Re: what was the one charateristic of your abuser. [Re: Justintime]
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First abuser: He was intimidating

Second abuser: He was a charmer

Interesting contrast between the two of them.

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#231336 - 06/16/08 04:23 PM Re: what was the one charateristic of your abuser. [Re: Barkabus]
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Registered: 06/12/08
Posts: 1755
Loc: Mojave Desert, Ca
A people's person--- He fooled everybody.

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#231337 - 06/16/08 04:25 PM Re: what was the one charateristic of your abuser. [Re: michael banks]
jaa Offline
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Registered: 10/17/07
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Loc: Rhode Island
A manipulator that came across as such a great guy to everyone...but he didn't have everyone fooled...and too many were adults were afraid to confront him...how many (including myself) could have been saved if just one of those adults had acted on their gut feelings about him.

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#445749 - 08/28/13 05:01 PM Re: what was the one charateristic of your abuser. [Re: justanother121]
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Manipulative.

Seems like a very common theme on this thread.
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#445759 - 08/28/13 05:34 PM Re: what was the one charateristic of your abuser. [Re: justanother121]
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#445762 - 08/28/13 05:50 PM ! [Re: justanother121]
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Edited by Smalltown80sBoy (02/28/14 09:32 PM)

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#445763 - 08/28/13 05:53 PM Re: what was the one charateristic of your abuser. [Re: justanother121]
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Versatile. He could be a kind-hearted protector and sadistic torturer within the same hour.
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#445766 - 08/28/13 06:10 PM Re: what was the one charateristic of your abuser. [Re: SoccerStar]
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Registered: 02/26/08
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Loc: USA
clever, sadistic, sociopathic, narcissistic, manipulative, pedophilic

(describes abusers both at 4 and at 120

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#445774 - 08/28/13 07:04 PM Re: what was the one charateristic of your abuser. [Re: justanother121]
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Registered: 04/02/13
Posts: 28
Pity.

My dad always made me feel sorry for him, how he was getting treated in the family. I couldn't out him for many reasons that young people don't out their perps but this was one of them.

I agree, the core is selfishness and control/manipulation.

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