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#220452 - 04/25/08 03:08 PM Re: Why do I feel weird about kissing? ? [Re: JustJeff]
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Registered: 04/25/08
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Loc: Midwest
Kissing is more intimate than other intimacies with another person.
Kissing your dog, is different from kissing your Mom, or kissing a relative, and certainly your partner is supposed to be the best kiss.
I know that being sexualized without the emotional component of kissing was very confusing to me. I didn't want to kiss anyone unless I really, really trusted them to be with me emotionally.
I would have sex with some women and lots of guys without kissing them
-- especially when I acting out. So -- just try trusting this woman and realize that a kiss is just kiss -- unless you're really in love and being loved in return. I am sad for us all, that feeling secure, happy and joyous when in love is such a conflicted and complicated experience.


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#220587 - 04/26/08 01:21 AM Re: Why do I feel weird about kissing? ? [Re: JustJeff]
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One thing that helped me was, kissing girls that are my close friends. This is a display of affection but nothing serious. It helped to make me more comfortable when I do become intimate. Practicing and talking about it, and repetition will get rid of this problem eventually.

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