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#21486 - 08/22/05 10:13 PM Re: Medicb4
lostcowboy Offline
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Registered: 11/10/04
Posts: 797
Loc: North Texas
I posted this on pandys.org, and feel it should be here also.
MedicB4/ Scott, was fairly new on malesurvivor.org, but most people took a liking to him right away. I think both me and Scott signed up on pandys.org on the same day. He started in posting to everyone, while I held back, that's just the way we are. I was surprised to find Scott on here, as I had not told anyone that I was coming over here. I did make sure that he knew that I was here also, and he accepted that.

After Finding out that he had passed away, I read his posts on both pandys.org and malesurvivor to try to understand why. Here is what I understand, he had a very bad type of SA which ended with his mom committing suicide and dieing in his arms. He was going through a very rough time in his own marriage. Also one of the last posts that he read and replied to was my story about how I was raped at knife point. My story is a very graphic story. Even though, I had the mods over at malesurvivor.org add extra warnings to the story, he read it anyway. Some how with all of this going on in his head at the sometime it was to much for him, and he took his own life.
I liked Scott, and will miss him. I hope he has found the peace he was seeking.

Take care,
Lostcowboy

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"Don't walk in front of me, I may not follow. Don't walk behind me, I may not lead. Just walk beside me and be my friend." - Albert Camus
Pretty much my life as I have posted so far. Triggers!

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#21488 - 08/23/05 12:06 PM Re: Medicb4
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Registered: 07/06/04
Posts: 6838
Loc: Stuck between water, air, and ...
LC, I never talk about kn*ves here, because they are big triggers, and sometime back, a person wrote a post with big triggers, so I got a mod to put triggers on it.

It is not for any of us to reason why somebody chooses exit, but we should just embrace the good thoughts of the person.

Suicide is far too common in all cultures, but nobody listens to the messages, or listens and learns from past events.

When society turns away from basic human instincts, then it starts to lose itself to some projection of peer forces.

Society should listen and care, and to project an image of wanting to find answers to the deep and profound problems, that it forms within itself,

ste

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