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#212272 - 03/22/08 12:27 PM testing testing 1 2 3
ineffable Offline
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Registered: 02/07/08
Posts: 1371
Loc: state of holeecrapdood
Hi men

This came up for me in a PM I sent yesterday
I asked him if he tested people & if so how does one pass that test?
The reply was "no one has yet"

People used to tell me they felt I was testing them
I know that it has to do with trusting, boundaries, control, vulnerability...

Does anyone really know for themselves what it would take for someone to "pass the test"?

C

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#212299 - 03/22/08 03:01 PM Re: testing testing 1 2 3 [Re: ineffable]
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Registered: 12/30/07
Posts: 2723
Loc: Washington State
For me Craig, it would be that they accept me and do not judge me and are consistant and dependable when encountered. Not much of that around. Sometimes I even draw back from my wife who I feel I know and trust more than anyone.

Odd but sometimes lately I sense that she is jealous of the degree to which I have opened up on the site and the trust I seem to have with many of you. I should adress that with her and reassure her I think.



Edited by Freedom49 (03/22/08 03:01 PM)

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#212335 - 03/22/08 06:03 PM Re: testing testing 1 2 3 [Re: Freedom49]
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what's your criteria craig?


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#212379 - 03/22/08 10:37 PM Re: testing testing 1 2 3 [Re: Jarrad]
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For starters:

People that don't answer questions with questions of their own
People who keep their word
Admit they made a mistake

will add more as I can


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