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#211073 - 03/16/08 04:38 PM .
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#211075 - 03/16/08 04:44 PM Re: Old behaviors [Re: bardo213]
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Thanks lynch,
I have done this also and it was a healing experience. Although it was a letter to me as an adult/teen/child it was still very emotional. It helped me get back in touch with my emotions.

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#211079 - 03/16/08 04:55 PM . [Re: GateKPR4]
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#211089 - 03/16/08 05:46 PM Re: Old behaviors [Re: bardo213]
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LM,
My inner child was a tough little cookie. He survived a hell of a lot of abuse and got me where I am today. I realized not to long ago that I was still trying to use his coping skills to survive a grown up world in which I now have control. I had to modify or eliminate some of those and replace them with healthier ways of coping now. I thanked him for his courage, intelligence and cleverness but now it is my turn to take care of him. I bought him a blankie and a Teddy Bear and I told him I would sleep with them till he felt he didn't need them anymore. I have slept much better since. I have felt a peace inside I have not felt before. I apologized for hating him and for blaming him for not stopping what he could not have stopped if he had tried. We are on great terms again. I love that little guy. He saved my life.


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#211091 - 03/16/08 05:49 PM Re: Old behaviors [Re: Freedom49]
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I got a blankie, copy cat roger!!!!

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#211105 - 03/16/08 06:20 PM Re: Old behaviors [Re: GateKPR4]
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My GF bought my "little guy" a tractor that I play with many times. The picture, avatar, of him I keep in my wallet and he now goes with me every where I go.

As Roger says above, he was a fighter and a warrier. I love that "little guy" so much. He didn't deserve all the SA, but he hung in there and survived. Now I have to be as strong as he was and fight for him and me. How could I let him down after what he did for me? I can't. I owe him and I will repay him.

We will win, we will survive, we will be stronger than ever before and we plan on helping others when we are strong.

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#211264 - 03/17/08 01:28 PM . [Re: awakening]
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