you can have children with a gay partner, and it can be argued that you can have a "wife" too depending on how fem he is. haha. companionship with women is normal for gay men. (most gay men have a close female friend... usually called fag hags.) but anyway.. just throwing that out there.
Les...that is not odd at all....
My partner and I have a daughter but its from my "playing it straight" marriage, adoption is a good option although it is tough for gay men....better in other states though.
On the wife thing (gay guy)...ya you should meet my partner, She , opps I mean He, is very fem (and in no way ashamed about it)...LOL
It's easy to find a gay guy who is really much like a woman...I cant stand the normal "guys"...I am not attracted to that personality...so I always end up with fems. Trust me you can have the best of both worlds.
and by the way Jarrad, I found my fag hag here!!!! (She knows who she is....LOL)