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#177079 - 08/29/07 11:42 PM Does this seem odd?
lee_es Offline
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I am Sexually attracted to guys BUT I am emotionally attracted(i look at nothing but guy on guy porn) to women. What I mean is i can see my self have sex with a guy but not be boyfriends, I still want children and a wife.


Does this seem odd?



Edited by lee_es (08/29/07 11:44 PM)

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#177081 - 08/29/07 11:45 PM Re: Does this seem odd? [Re: lee_es]
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If it is odd, I'm odd as well. Wish I could help you more but the best I can say is "me too"

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#177087 - 08/30/07 12:06 AM Re: Does this seem odd? [Re: lee_es]
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It doesn't sound odd to me because I can relate.

I'm repulsed by the female body, and I'm repulsed by emotional attachments to men.

At the same time, when I used to watch porn, I was more interested in the men, but I truly desire female companionship.

Bryan

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#177151 - 08/30/07 10:19 AM Re: Does this seem odd? [Re: BJK]
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you can have children with a gay partner, and it can be argued that you can have a "wife" too depending on how fem he is. haha. companionship with women is normal for gay men. (most gay men have a close female friend... usually called fag hags.) but anyway.. just throwing that out there.


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#177156 - 08/30/07 10:32 AM Re: Does this seem odd? [Re: Jarrad]
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Originally Posted By: Jarrad
you can have children with a gay partner, and it can be argued that you can have a "wife" too depending on how fem he is. haha. companionship with women is normal for gay men. (most gay men have a close female friend... usually called fag hags.) but anyway.. just throwing that out there.


Les...that is not odd at all....


My partner and I have a daughter but its from my "playing it straight" marriage, adoption is a good option although it is tough for gay men....better in other states though.

On the wife thing (gay guy)...ya you should meet my partner, She , opps I mean He, is very fem (and in no way ashamed about it)...LOL

It's easy to find a gay guy who is really much like a woman...I cant stand the normal "guys"...I am not attracted to that personality...so I always end up with fems. Trust me you can have the best of both worlds.


and by the way Jarrad, I found my fag hag here!!!! (She knows who she is....LOL)


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#210346 - 03/12/08 07:33 PM Re: Does this seem odd? [Re: pain4ever]
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That's OK!
I am finding that a lot of people have this same thing because othe abuse...

JT


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