Hi Carlton, welcome, sorry that you have a need for this place. But I am glad you found it. On this web site, if she become a paying member, she can post in the private side. She just has to remember to log out each time. But I think she wants a different web site. There is another large web site called Pandora's Aquarium
it mostly has female members, but they do let guys on there also. If your wife is a survivor also, she should register as a survivor so that she will have full use of the site. If she is only the wife of a survivor she should let them know and she will be limited to the sections where partners of survivors can go.
Hope this helps.