Christopher,

He is brother was not smart enough to arrange his life properly before going to be a dad.

You are understanding this situation correctly, and I know what you are talking about. I would also get angry at my brother for him having to get money from my parents for his own needs while he did not have a job.

I think that probably your bro will change when he will face the responsibility for his child.

Alexey

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