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#201466 - 01/26/08 08:14 AM The 12 promises
John Oarc Offline
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Registered: 02/10/06
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Loc: Louisiana
This link is from codependents.org

http://codependents.org/foundation-docs-12-promises.php

I remember the first time a therapist gave me the codependent news, I said "I'm not codependent," how wrong I was and really had no clue what was going on in my life at the time. The first meeting I refused to say, "Hello, my name is John and I am codependent." I thought saying it would affirm the diagnosis and that was the last meeting I attended. Now I would gladly go but I live in such a remote area the nearest meeting is three hours away. Can't go back in time and I am glad I am this far but my recommendations to everyone is to find a good therapist and trust them, do what they ask of you, let them help you.

Have a great day,





Edited by John Oarc (01/26/08 08:15 AM)
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#201475 - 01/26/08 08:48 AM Re: The 12 promises [Re: John Oarc]
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John,

I'll just chime in here and second your comments on cooperating with the T. I was scared to death when it all began, but by the time therapy ended for me I was looking forward to my appointments as a kind of highlight of my week.

Much love,
Larry

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#201578 - 01/26/08 04:51 PM Re: The 12 promises [Re: roadrunner]
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It's like that for me now Larry. now I go every two weeks and it won't be long before its once a month then none. I have learned a lot on this journey.
as far a codependent stuff, I found this site very helpful http://joy2meu.com/

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#201634 - 01/26/08 10:04 PM Re: The 12 promises [Re: GateKPR4]
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john-Ricky--------------Thanks--------------More Stuff for Me to Read-And Maybe Figure me Out-------------------------Steve


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#201691 - 01/27/08 03:12 AM Re: The 12 promises [Re: sabata]
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CoDA is a great organization that deals with a lot of the issues we have as survivors: Self-Esteem, Boundaries, and relationships in general. If you can't find a group specifically for survivors, I think that CoDA is the next best thing.


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