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#201168 - 01/24/08 04:38 PM Am I in The Right Place ?
Calanthe Offline
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Registered: 01/24/08
Posts: 109
Loc: California
Am I in the right place?

I do not want to take away from others experiences or pain but I was sexual abused when I was a young adult (26) not when I was a child. Is the right place or is there another place.

I do relate a lot of what have read and while I did not face the same level of vulnerability that as young child faces my perpetrator exercised a tremendous amount influence over my spiritual life and my concepts of my own eternal salvation (I thought he was my last hope to be spiritually healed and saved).

Anyway, I just want to make sure this is right place before I start getting into all the gory details.

I have had other childhood survivors discount my damage as result of my age or erroneously interpret my story as some how discounting their experience and I do not want to go through those experiences again.

So if this is the place great if not please refer me to the appropriate area.

Thanks,

Cal

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You can't save your Ass and your Face at the same time. (Anonymous)

And given the choice I will save my ass first everytime(STC)

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#201169 - 01/24/08 04:59 PM Re: Am I in The Right Place ? [Re: Calanthe]
mogigo Offline
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Registered: 04/24/07
Posts: 1331
Loc: Colorado
You're in the right place Cal, we're all here to overcome sexual victimization no matter what our age. So settle in and welcome to malesurvivor. You are most definately welcome here.

Stay strong
Mike

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#201171 - 01/24/08 05:12 PM Re: Am I in The Right Place ? [Re: mogigo]
mvnforwrd Offline
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Registered: 12/05/07
Posts: 216
Loc: NJ
Welcome Cal,

I was abused for many many years by the same person and it lasted well into my 20's. I have not once had anyone say anything about my age and I have not read anything that says anything other then a victim is a victim regardless of there gender, age, faith or sexual orientation. so I would say you are at the right place to start healing. welcome
mvn4wrd

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Take your foot out of yesterday and your other foot out of tomorro or you will keep pissing allover today!

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#201177 - 01/24/08 05:43 PM Re: Am I in The Right Place ? [Re: Calanthe]
GateKPR4 Offline
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MaleSurvivor

Registered: 10/28/07
Posts: 955
Loc: North Carolina, USA
Welcome to MS Cal,
You are in the right place
This is from the Male Survivor bylaws
Quote:
Section 1.2 Mission Statement.
The mission statement of the corporation is as follows: We are committed to preventing, healing and eliminating all forms of sexual victimization of boys and men through treatment, research, education, advocacy and activism.


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I'm a normal person dealing with abnormal experiences.
The greatest discoveries we will find within ourselves.
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#201383 - 01/25/08 08:23 PM Re: Am I in The Right Place ? [Re: GateKPR4]
roadrunner Offline
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Registered: 05/02/05
Posts: 22045
Loc: Carlisle, PA
Cal,

Welcome to MaleSurvivor. You are most definitely in the right place, and no one here will run you down because you don't have the right "qualifications". Many guys here (including me) were abused into adulthood and will have a pretty good idea of the problems you are talking about.

Much love,
Larry

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Nobody living can ever stop me
As I go walking my freedom highway.
Nobody living can make me turn back:
This land was made for you and me.
(Woody Guthrie)

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