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#200236 - 01/19/08 03:23 PM Why do I need to say this?
mogigo Offline
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Registered: 04/24/07
Posts: 1331
Loc: Colorado
I was thinking about my Mom, she passed away just over a year ago and when I was lost in the thought of her I found myself saying over and over again "I'm sorry for being a man".

I feel like I should apoligize for being born male

It's doing a number on me, what the fuck!!!???

Stay strong
Mike

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#200240 - 01/19/08 03:36 PM Re: Why do I need to say this? [Re: mogigo]
alexey Offline
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Registered: 08/16/05
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Mike, I think you are pushing yourself to the feeling of fault you could make in thepast when the abuse happened.

Take it easy. You are a human being, who cares man or woman. You deserve life.

Alexey

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#200504 - 01/21/08 08:03 AM Re: Why do I need to say this? *DELETED* [Re: alexey]
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#200506 - 01/21/08 08:13 AM Re: Why do I need to say this? [Re: awakening]
Freedom49 Offline
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Registered: 12/30/07
Posts: 2723
Loc: Washington State
I am so sorry mogigo. She was wrong to say that and hurt you. In her pain she struck out at you and left and wound that you have had trouble healing. As parents we have no idea how deeply a child is wounded my our words. The venom we spit out in our own pain can inflict hurt and sores that last a life time. Heal my from mogigo. You are a man and it is good.

Roger


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#200615 - 01/21/08 07:03 PM Re: Why do I need to say this? [Re: Freedom49]
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Registered: 12/05/07
Posts: 216
Loc: NJ
Noone should have to hear those words. But I can say you are a good person regardless of your gender or what your mother wanted your gender to be. Male or Female you are a person and a good person. I like to break things down and one of those things is to look at everyone as a person. every person has a heart. and hearts get broken regardless if you have a dick or tits.

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