hello all. it has been a long time!!! i hope everyone is doing well! i've made alot of steps since i last posted! hope to hear from ya'll soon.

Welcome Back terpprm,

We all need a break from time to time, jump back in, the water is still fine.

Hope to hear about your progress.

One step at a time... we'll get there.

Carl

i really missed posting here. i don't have a working computer and i got laid off so the cell phone i used to post' got shut off. i finally got a cell and then forgot about the website. but i'm back now. i can only sum up my progress with one sentence. I'M GETTING MARRIED!!! that's how far i've come! if you want anymore detail you'll have to ask me specific questions cause i can't think of anything right off. don't worry about triggers. i'm pretty well maintaining those. thanks for responding. can't wait to hear from you again.

WOW.....

Well let me be the first to say congratulations. It is inspiring to know you can still find love.

I wish you all the best. I'll think of some questions, and get back to you.

Carl

thanks buddy. i hope that this post will be an encouragement to others out there. it is possible, just keep your eye on the prize. talk to you soon.

the best part is, my girlfriend has been raped. so we feel the same on alot of things! she knows about my sa obviously. i was able to keep it from her for almost a year. but i got sick of hearing, ''you understand how i feel, you've never been raped'' and i kinda went off on her. and that's when and how i told her. might i add that there is a better way. lol.

May not be the best way to say this...



but I understand what you meant.

Carl

yeah, i sat here for like a minute tryin to think of a better way to put it but there wasn't one at 3 am. lol

Goodnight

TTYL,
Carl

P.S. We do get a bit silly at this time of night.

g'nite.