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#199728 - 01/16/08 10:19 AM Re: well dressed? is this a problem? [Re: AndyJB2005]
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Registered: 06/15/07
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it's not necesarily bad, but it's not good for your fiance' to constantly hear either. i am metro. that's what i claim and my fiance' knows that.

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#199730 - 01/16/08 10:20 AM Re: well dressed? is this a problem? [Re: terpprm]
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lol Yeah. At least she knows not many women will be hitting on you. lol \:\)

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#199738 - 01/16/08 11:06 AM Re: well dressed? is this a problem? [Re: AndyJB2005]
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Originally Posted By: AndyJB2005
...why does being called gay have to have bad connotations and make you feel bad?


Very good point Andy! Thank you for that.

I can also see how that could be bad for your fiance to hear.

Craig

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#199742 - 01/16/08 11:19 AM Re: well dressed? is this a problem? [Re: cbfull]
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I like to say that I'm a "Modern Man." I also like to look good, pay way to much for a haircut, use product and sleep with women. Its all good. . . LOL

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#199749 - 01/16/08 11:48 AM Re: well dressed? is this a problem? [Re: AndyJB2005]
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Terpprm,

It is rediculous. Wanting to care of how you look or present yourself have nothing to do with being gay. I have had that similar, experience, recently. Because I do not care so much how I look, but because I work in cold and dry place and I buy certain kind of soaps and lotions to keep my skin from drying up. And a co-worker make mention of that, 'oh, will you be coming out of the closet soon?'. It is rediculous and stupid kind of thinking, and it do not really mean anything about you. It is showing the 'close mindedness' of the people making such comments.

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#199763 - 01/16/08 12:20 PM Re: well dressed? is this a problem? [Re: VN]
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thank you all for your support! it means oh so much to me!

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#199810 - 01/16/08 04:19 PM Re: well dressed? is this a problem? *DELETED* [Re: terpprm]
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#199820 - 01/16/08 05:14 PM Re: well dressed? is this a problem? [Re: awakening]
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Who decides what is "dressing well" anyway? If I buy my clothes at thrift stores and not use product in my hair does that mean I'm "unkempt?" I mean I do still shower and shave. LOL

I couldn't pass for an Ambercrombie model anyway. lol \:\)

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#199823 - 01/16/08 06:01 PM Re: well dressed? is this a problem? *DELETED* [Re: AndyJB2005]
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#199826 - 01/16/08 06:27 PM Re: well dressed? is this a problem? [Re: awakening]
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Registered: 12/10/07
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Wait till your over forty... then it won't matter either way. \:\)

Gay / Straight... who cares what they think. Envy, that's what I think.

keep lookin good

weapher

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