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#199690 - 01/16/08 02:41 AM well dressed? is this a problem?
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Registered: 06/15/07
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Loc: Elyria, Ohio
i'm a little confused. my abuse started at age 14. i am now 20, i care about style and fashion very much, i make sure i look nice, i even reverted to frosting my tips(my hair). suddenly i'm getting comments from my family and friends about being gay . is looking nice a problem? i don't think so, but everyone seems to make it into one. not many of my friends and none of my family know about my sa, so i kinda just deal with it and act as if i don't care, and sometimes it even hurts, but i don't know what else to do. any suggestions? i don't wanna not look good, but i hate that a straight guy can't look good without being gay. it bothers me. but what is there to do without completely dropping my personality?!

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#199696 - 01/16/08 03:01 AM Re: well dressed? is this a problem? [Re: terpprm]
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Registered: 06/04/07
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Terpprm,

Well the wedding should answer any lingering questions about your sexuality. LOL \:D

Just be sure to use tongue, while you standing on the alter.

That way the whole family will see you acting straight, even with the frosted tips and tux. LMAO \:D

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Carl

BTW.... frosted tips and tux.... sounds HOTTTT !!!!! to me. ROTFLMAO \:D ... \:D ... \:D

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#199697 - 01/16/08 03:03 AM Re: well dressed? is this a problem? [Re: Scoutvictim]
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lol! let's hope so! you're so funny! i can't wait to do it!!! i wanna see you there just so you can see that i took your advice! ha!

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#199698 - 01/16/08 03:08 AM Re: well dressed? is this a problem? [Re: terpprm]
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I'll volunteer as an Usher.

I looooook so good in a tux!!! (if I do say so myself)

Hmmm... may have to have my tips frosted also.

Just send me the info...

LOL LOL LOL... \:D ... \:D ... \:D

Carl

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#199700 - 01/16/08 03:11 AM Re: well dressed? is this a problem? [Re: Scoutvictim]
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lol...i talk to my better half bout the ushering! lol

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#199703 - 01/16/08 03:15 AM Re: well dressed? is this a problem? [Re: terpprm]
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Okay...let me know....

all right...I have got to go to bed...got to work in the morning.

G'night....

welcome back again,

Carl

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#199704 - 01/16/08 03:17 AM Re: well dressed? is this a problem? [Re: Scoutvictim]
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thanks buddy. talk to you soon. g'nite.

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#199720 - 01/16/08 09:19 AM Re: well dressed? is this a problem? [Re: terpprm]
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Registered: 02/16/07
Posts: 6514
Loc: Terminus
I would'nt give a flying fk what "people say." Maybe you are surrounded by nuckleheads.

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#199721 - 01/16/08 09:26 AM Re: well dressed? is this a problem? [Re: Still]
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Registered: 01/26/07
Posts: 386
Loc: Ohio
Don't worry about it, they are just being silly with the teasing. I live in a very gay-friendly city, and hetero guys around here have a tendency to dress and look great. It confuses me sometimes, because often the straight men look and dress better than a lot of the gay men!

Keep it up, they're just jealous that you look great!

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#199725 - 01/16/08 10:10 AM Re: well dressed? is this a problem? [Re: cbfull]
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I thought metrosexual (looking good, but being straight) was in right now? lol Besides, why does being called gay have to have bad connotations and make you feel bad? Take it as a compliment and just say, happily, "Nope! I'm not. But I am fabulous!" LOL

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